A question for any believers in the supernatural who think that there is a "Heaven" and "Hell" after you die. It doesn't matter what religion you've chosen, so long as there's a good place and bad place after death for your kind.
I was wondering what happens when you make it to your "Heaven", but a loved one ends up in "Hell". It seems like that would spoil Heaven for you, but how can that be? Isn't Heaven supposed to perfectly awesome? And if by some god-magic it doesn't bother you that a loved one is in Hell, are you really yourself anymore? Can you really say you still have your own thoughts and feelings? Aren't you just programmed to feel good by your god or gods?
I guess some people could say that you'd be cool with your mother or daughter in Hell because you have perfect understanding of some divine plan now or something, but that seems like a cop out.
What am I missing?