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This area is meant to be a haven for married couples who practice safe and consensual Christian Domestic Discipline, or for those who would like to learn more about it. This site is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only and not to train readers in CDD.
A domestic discipline marriage is one in which one partner in the marriage is given authority over the other and has the means to back the authority, usually by spanking.
A Christian Domestic Discipline marriage is one that is set up according to Biblical standards; that is, the husband is the authority in the household. The wife is submissive to her husband as is fit in the Lord and her husband loves her as himself. He has the ultimate authority in his household, but it is tempered with the knowledge that he must answer to God for his actions and decisions. He has the authority to spank his wife for punishment, but in real CDD marriages this is taken very seriously and usually happens only rarely. CDD is so much more than just spanking. It is the husband loving the wife enough to guide and teach her, and the wife loving the husband enough to follow his leadership. A Christian marriage embodies true romance and a Christian man a true hero.
Though this seems unusual in today's United States, this kind of marriage has been practised throughout history and is still practised in many parts of the world today.
Why does my wife want to be spanked?
Because she needs to feel that you are in charge and because she has been acting in less than a way a proper wife should.
Do I have to spank her to tears?
Yes, by spanking her to tears you are allowing her to fully submit and be humbled for her actions.
Isn't spanking just for kinky play?
No, it is a great form of behaviour modification and attitude adjustment.
Does it need to be on the bare bottom?
Yes, by having her bottom spanked bare will increase the effectiveness of the spanking and help to teach her.
What if it doesn't work, and her behaviour continues?
Some problems require more than one discipline, you will need to spank her again.
What instrument should I use?
The best by far is always the hand, it is safer then other things, and besides you always have it with you.
What if I am mad, could I hurt her?
If angry at the time, put her in the corner and take that time to cool down, once you have gotten control of your anger then spank her.
Can't I just listen to her instead?
No, she has all the girlfriends she need to listen to her, she needs you to be strong and correct her behavior.
I have never spanked her before not even for play. will it hurt her?
If a wife has her bottom bared and is spanked, yes it will hurt, that is the purpose of it, and helps to better her behaviour.
Is this something new?
No, couples for generations have been using spankings in a loving way.
just watch any old movies or t.v. shows.
Will I have to always monitor her behaviour?
No, after a little while she will become contrite and submit to you as her HOH, have her keep a journal so when needed it can be reviewed.
Will that mean she is my slave?
No, not at all, this is about loving, taking the time to correct her out of love.
You do not own her, she has a mind, but she respects you and willingly submit.